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Custody & Parenting Time

Suffolk County Child Custody Lawyer

Custody, parenting time, relocation, and modification in Suffolk County Family Court and Supreme Court, from an attorney who is also appointed by the court as Attorney for the Child.

Child custody attorney in Suffolk County Family Court

Nothing in family law matters more than your children. Beau Taylor Law, PLLC represents mothers, fathers, and other caregivers in custody and parenting time cases in Suffolk County Family Court and in custody disputes within a divorce in Supreme Court. Beau Taylor also serves by court appointment as Attorney for the Child, which means he regularly sees custody cases from the perspective of the child's own lawyer and understands exactly what the court will weigh.

Legal custody and physical custody

New York separates two questions. Legal custody is who makes major decisions about education, medical care, and religion. It can be sole or joint. Physical custody, often called residential custody, is where the child primarily lives, with a parenting time schedule for the other parent. Many Suffolk County families end up with joint legal custody and a detailed parenting schedule, but every arrangement must fit the child and the parents' ability to cooperate.

How the court decides: the best interests of the child

There is no presumption in favor of either parent. The court looks at the whole picture, including:

  • Which parent has been the primary caregiver
  • Each parent's ability to provide stability, supervision, and a suitable home
  • Each parent's willingness to foster the child's relationship with the other parent
  • Domestic violence, substance abuse, or mental health concerns
  • The child's wishes, given weight appropriate to age and maturity
  • Keeping siblings together
  • Work schedules and the practical logistics of school and activities

The court may appoint an Attorney for the Child, order a forensic evaluation, or direct a home study. Knowing how those pieces work, and how to present your case through them, is where experience in the Suffolk County courts pays off.

Parenting time and schedules that work

A good parenting plan is specific: weekdays, weekends, holidays, school breaks, summer, transportation, communication, and how disputes get resolved. Vague orders create conflict. The firm drafts parenting plans that anticipate real life on Long Island, including long commutes, seasonal work on the East End, and shared custody across different school districts.

Modification and enforcement

A custody order can be changed when there has been a substantial change in circumstances and a modification serves the child's best interests. Common reasons include a parent's relocation, a change in the child's needs, persistent interference with parenting time, or safety concerns. When a parent violates an order, the firm files enforcement and violation petitions and asks the court for meaningful remedies.

Relocation

A custodial parent who wants to move with the child, whether upstate, out of state, or simply far enough to disrupt the schedule, generally needs the other parent's consent or the court's permission. Relocation cases are fact intensive and are among the most contested matters in Family Court. The firm handles both sides.

Grandparents, stepparents, and nonparents

Grandparents may seek visitation in certain circumstances, and a nonparent can seek custody when extraordinary circumstances exist. These cases turn on specific legal standards, and the firm can tell you quickly whether a petition is viable.

Attorney for the Child

In many Suffolk County custody cases the court appoints an Attorney for the Child to represent the child's position. Beau Taylor accepts those appointments and brings that experience to his representation of parents: he knows what the child's attorney will ask, what the court attorney referee will look for, and how to present a parent as the stable, child focused choice.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do mothers automatically get custody in New York?
No. New York law has no preference for either parent. The court decides custody based on the best interests of the child after considering all the circumstances.
At what age can a child decide which parent to live with?
There is no set age. The court considers the child's wishes and gives them more weight as the child gets older and more mature, but the child's preference is one factor among many and is never controlling on its own.
What is an Attorney for the Child?
An attorney appointed by the court to represent the child in a custody, visitation, or family offense case. The Attorney for the Child meets with the child, advocates for the child's position, and participates in the case like any other party's lawyer.
Can custody be changed after the order is issued?
Yes, if there has been a substantial change in circumstances since the order and a change would serve the child's best interests. Agreements can also be modified by consent and submitted to the court.
What if the other parent will not follow the custody order?
You can file a violation petition in Family Court. Remedies can include make up parenting time, a modification of the order, counsel fees, and in serious cases a finding of contempt.
Can I move with my child?
If you have a custody order or a divorce agreement, you generally need the other parent's written consent or the court's permission before relocating in a way that affects parenting time. Moving without it can result in an order to return and can hurt your custody position.

Talk to a Suffolk County attorney today.

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